My husband and I have not had our own kids yet because we basically do not want the responsibility.  Since his mom has been kind of ill lately we have had to pick his little sister up from school and take care of her for a couple of hours every day.  It doesn’t sound like much, but she is kind of a brat that does not listen and has an excuse for everything (she gets that from her dad).  I am just annoyed because if I wanted these responsibilities I would have my own kid.